For a while there, I thought we were going to have a Valentine’s baby. Junior’s due date was 14th February, which has now passed with no sign of his/her arrival.
Oddly, whenever I’ve mentioned the due date to friends, there’s been a universal “awww- how romantic- a baby on Valentine’s day!”
But I think this is very wrong. Consider for a moment how every other 14th Feb would be for us. On a notably romantic day of the year, Deirdie and I would be waist deep in jelly & icecream, and kiddy parties. Every parent for miles around would be able, and expected to dump their child on us for Junior’s birthday party, whilst they go out for a nice meal, bottle of wine, and a little peace and quiet.
OK, that sounds quite selfish- but what about when kiddo is a little older, and starts having birhtday parties that involve drinks, pubs, clubs and late nights? Well, I guess s/he will always get cards on valentine’s day, even if they’re birthday cards- but will friends be available for partying- or will they be off with their boyfriends/girlfriends?
Every pub/club will have their vlentine’s special on, and you won’t be able to get a meal out without booking a table months in advance. As a side, any menu on valentine’s tends to have at least one heart-shaped dish (usually desert), too much decor in red/pink and probably some inflated prices.
You see- Junior not ariving yesterday means everyone’s a winner!
Bets are now on for when Junior does arrive. With the due date past, we could be heading for hospital at any time. The bags are packed, but we are still decorating!
Here we are. One week exactly until Junior’s due date. Still so much to do… We have the clothes and kit we need including the pram- but we don’t yet have a nursery.
Junior will be in our room at first but will go in to his/her own room in due course.
We’ve been tidying the spare room/office- to make this into the nursery. We’re going to leave a desk in there so it will end up being an “officery”.
Here’s what we currently have to contend with. This is all of the shite we have pulled from drawers and need to bin or find homes for. It’s a big pile and is deeper and wider than this photo shows. So, do you think we’re ready yet?
1 week and counting remember- Junior could come any day!
Saturday, we picked up the pram. It’s a bugaboo:
It’s a techno-pram. Wallace invented it for his dog Grommit, when he was a puppy. We’ve been practicing putting the thing together- and it’s not that easy. Because of some of the safety features, you kinda need 3 hands to get the thing to collapse down successfully. I think that, with practice, I may be able to use the toes on my left foot to provide that final flick to pop it up and down.
We also bought most of the things we need for Junior’s arrival- not everything, but the hospital and immediately after is covered. My folks have agreed to buy the changing station (thanks Mom, Dad).
What next? Wait for Junior to arrive I guess. Four weeks to go. Wow, that’s close. Any final words of wisdom? Anyone?
Greg- all your fault, since talking to you I’ve been worrying about what to take to hospital when labour starts.
What do we need to pack to take to the hospital when little junior comes? I was thinking some jamas and a spare change for Deirdie, and a few snacks. The list is longer than that- oh yes.
Best advice so far the BBC web site- http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/having_a_baby/pregnancy_hospital.shtml
And the baby centre web site-http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnancy/labourandbirth/hospitalbag/index.html
I think I’ll need a bigger bag!
When running in cold weather, does it make sense to run in hat, gloves and shorts? I saw a fella run like that this week- it was cold and likely to rain, but really, shorts?